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Kevin Carpenter's avatar

"They’re too young to know that you’re not supposed to admit that the point of being very online is to avoid the self. They say the quiet part out loud. Online life is more “peaceful and calming” because online you’re permitted to be a vegetable. Online you can mute yourself, render yourself an unperson, remove yourself from existence and in so doing avoid the pain of being alive. "

I think what deBoer gets wrong, is that this is not just teenagers. This may describe yours truly (64 years old).

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David Stafford's avatar

How do we start? By acknowledging that social media isn't the whole problem. It's the phone itself, gateway to the virtual world and dopamine dispensing seducer of innocents. As a trog who never got a cell phone I've watched the world lose its way in pursuit of the shiny object. The machine experience gives constant encouragement to those who want to power down their humanity and get in the binary groove. One silver lining: it has made old people like me aware of a valuable asset: we know there are alternate ways of being because we lived them.

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