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Ragged Clown's avatar

Hi Brink,

Could you point me to an article about *why* declining population is a problem? I don't necessarily disagree with you. I just don't have enough information to form an opinion yet.

Thanks!

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Nicholas Weininger's avatar

I keep coming back to what I regard as the central stylized facts of the modern fertility predicament, as summarized from what I understand of Lyman Stone and his collaborators' research (please correct me if any of this summary is inaccurate!):

1. People's average sincerely desired number of kids is plenty to sustain the population, if only they could realize that desire. The dominant (not the only) reason for societal TFR << 2 is a big gap between sincerely desired fertility and realized fertility. That's *not* the dominant reason for TFR 2 vs 4+, which is more about secularization, female emancipation, decreased infant mortality, etc. But those really are, as you say, two different demographic transitions.

2. The dominant (again, not the only) reason for the desired/realized gap is failure to form the kinds of partnerships that make people feel safe and well-supported having the number of kids they sincerely want. That's why TFR is near/above replacement *among married couples* even in the lowest-fertility societies.

Of course people have all kinds of explanations for why that failure to form partnerships happens. Still, at least realizing the above facts narrows down the problem a lot. And it points the way to a solution strategy we should welcome as fully compatible with modern liberal values, since

(a) people getting the big things they want in life is good, and kids are a thing people still want a lot

(b) people being able to form stable, committed, loving partnerships is also really good for their flourishing in ways that go beyond fertility.

The other day in the New Yorker there was a memoir piece by Leslie Jamison that I think illustrates many aspects of the problem at once:

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2024/01/22/the-birth-of-my-daughter-the-death-of-my-marriage

The experience Jamison describes is truly awful (and beautifully described-- well worth reading just as a great personal essay) and I would wager that to the extent modern Western educated women feel unable to have the kids they want, it's in large part because they fear *ending up like her*. And if you think about the Amish or other trad societies, there are a bunch of reasons why women in those societies very rarely have to fear that kind of an experience:

-- there is very little loneliness in those societies; they are famously tight-knit socially and their marriage-making institutions work.

-- the burden of childcare is traditionally spread among the women in the extended family, which for all its faults, does spread out the burden and reduce the maximum intensity of burden on any one person-- and it's that maximum intensity which can get really overwhelming and scary, as any parent of an infant knows.

-- they also tend not to have the cultural expectations around intensive parenting which further increase that maximum intensity of burden for minimal demonstrable benefit to the kids.

There's a whole portfolio of things we could do to give non-Amish prospective mothers more of those benefits: technological, institutional, cultural, economic. Figuring out the highest-ROI, least-coercive ways to do that seems like a more constructive conversation topic than most of the handwringing and culture-scolding that are currently so prominent whenever fertility comes up.

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