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lindamc's avatar

Great essay. One thing I’m struggling with a bit is finding ways, as an individual, to work toward these ends. I see a lot of interest in these issues in my newsletters, but it’s more challenging in “real life.”

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Another fantastic essay. I agree wholeheartedly with Brink regarding his "likeliest dystopian outcome". It's much more "Brave New World" than "1984".

Just today, Amazon released Dr. Jean Twenge's "Generations", and in one snippet of that work, Twenge draws our attention to graphs demonstrating data points that evince a connection between higher rates of depression with lower rates of in-person socialization. I see this anecdotally with the teenagers I teach; over the course of the last 10 years, fewer of them are able to work in partners and small groups because they fear rejection, conflict, etc., and many of them tell me that they prefer to stay in their bedrooms, surf porn (imagine feeling comfortable telling YOUR teacher that!), "chat" with friends. Our school social worker confirms that indeed, Americans teens today are having sex at a later age, as well as imbibing less alcohol, than people of my generation (Generation Xer here). But if many teens are simply sitting at home on their devices, what aren't they doing (besides having sex and drinking alcohol, apparently)? Many teens aren't socializing with family and friends, they're not working on local community projects, they're not out enjoying springtime in nature, etc. In other words, they're not really being human, at least to my way of thinking.

I don't mean this to be an o tempora, o mores! situation. Some in every generation have one reason or another to critique the younger generations. I'm also not a social scientist, and therefore cannot speak with authority on the subject. What I just related re: our teens at my school is simply what I've noticed over the last decade in my own high school bubble, and it's distressing to me. It's distressing because many teens aren't learning to be fully human, and I hate to see them unwittingly limit their own capacity. It's also distressing because these are the people who are going to be running the government (or at least voting for those who run for government office).

I've become a big fan of Stoicism since the early days of the pandemic: recognizing to work on what I can control, to work a bit less on those things that I can partly control, and not bothering with those things outside my control. With such rapid technological changes and political turbulence the likes of which I hadn't personally witnessed in America, I better understand the importance of working on myself to make myself the best self I can be. And then I can try to make a positive impact on the world, however modest.

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